Thursday, March 3, 2011

your soulmate signs?

  • In order to recognize your soul mate, you must first know yourself.

  • Soul mate marriages can be well balanced, strong, and positive. There should be a lack of intimidation, manipulation, or abuse in a marriage of soul mates. A soul mate should make you feel safe.

  • A relationship with a soul mate is a natural fit and usually feels like it is meant to be. Even so, every marriage, even a marriage of soul mates, takes the two spouses giving priority to their marriage relationship.

  • A soul mate partner often feels like a mirror to their spouse. Though this does sound a bit boring.

  • A marriage to a soul mate is filled with honesty and support. But then, so are successful marriages of couples who don't believe they are soul mates.

  • There is a sense of familiarity and mutuality in a marriage to a soul mate as well as in long lasting marriages.

  • Soul mate marriages can be healthy, passionate and harmonious. Soul mate partners can easily get a lot done by working together.

  • Couples who are soul mates often take joy in watching the growth of one another.

  • A soul mate will accept who you are, will bring out the best in you, challenge you, and be your best friend. A soul mate will not require you to change. Hopefully, this is true of your spouse -- soul mate or not.

  • Soul mates relish small moments together and cherish their commitment to their marriage. Again -- shouldn't this be a way happy married couples live?

  • Take a Jungian personality type quiz to compare your personality styles.

  • Tips:

  • Be wary of looking for a mate who is ideal and who feels and thinks exactly the way you do. No one can live up to that kind of standard. Soul mates don't agree on everything.

  • Don't use the soul mate concept as an excuse to walk away from your commitment to your marriage.

  • Remember you can still have difficult times even when married to your soul mate. Romance is a gamble. Marriage takes attentiveness.

  • Bottom line: Marrying a soul mate isn't necessary in order to have a successful and happy marriage.